Woah, three months down – go us! The Dollar Diet way of life feels like second nature now, although a few spendy-spendy things crept up on me this week without me being fully prepared.
After recovering from a bug last week, my kids both came down with different illnesses so normal life was temporarily evicted from our house in Tawhero. My best friend’s birthday came and went without me having the time or energy to make her present, and then when I did try, it turned out disastrously. Even though I was saving money by making the present myself, the materials weren’t cheap, so I’m angry at myself for wasting money on my failed project. Back to the drawing board. You will get something one day R, I promise!
My mother-in-law turned 65, which is kind of a big deal here in NZ as it is ‘retirement age’, or the age where you become eligible for the ‘old-age pension’. Because of all the sickness, it felt like her birthday arrived out of nowhere, and I had ZERO inspiration as to what to make her for a present. She’s a really good sewer, so I didn’t want to gift her any of my wonky stitchwork. D ending up buying her a nick-nack from Trade Aid, and because I like to give things that are useful, I also bought her a beautiful artisan-crafted dish from an op-shop. For $1.50. For the record, I’m not a cheapskate when it comes to gifts, it just so happened that I spied something perfect for her, and it only cost $1.50! (She loved both gifts.)
As we have a larger house, we offered to host my MIL’s birthday party. I busted out my frugal staples of nut truffles, sausage rolls and fizzy soda water/juice. I made some bunting from materials I had to hand – paper doilies and ribbon.
D and I also made my MIL a cake. We cheekily gave her a ‘super gold card’ cake – which is a card that allows senior citizens to get discounts all over New Zealand, and is sent out when you turn 65.
Everyone bought a plate of food to share, and we got stuck into the festivities. My MIL wanted a kids party theme so we played a few games from childhood and had an absolute ball. We brought Pin the Tail on the Donkey forward into the 21st Century by playing ‘Pin the Mustache on George Clooney’.
We also played pass the parcel, and a ruthless ‘Chocolate Game’ where the competition was fierce.
It was a very enjoyable party. My MIL said afterwards that no one had ever thrown her a party before, so it was very special.
I did have to spend some money on children’s clothes this week, which I was hoping to avoid. Chip is consistently measuring 3 months ahead (D and I are tall) and while I have been gifted plenty of clothing in 1+ sizes, he didn’t have quite enough warm 9-12 month clothing to see him through the next few months, as we are now very much in Autumn. While I could have dressed Chip in larger sizes for a while, I believe that having clothes that fit well and that don’t impede movement is really important for his physical development, particularly now he is crawling. One of our local second-hand charity stores was having a garage sale so I thought I’d check it out. It was my lucky day as I found just what I wanted, and got the lot for 50 cents!
I’ve been surprised just how strong my urge to buy clothes for my kids is. Some days it literally takes all my willpower not to head to a store, even if it’s just an op-shop. I have clearly been obsessed with having ‘enough’ and buying things for those ‘just in case’ occasions for a long, long time. I had to do some serious mental negotiation while I was out looking for a few warm things for Chip to not buy more than was necessary, just because there were ‘bargains’ to be had. I will be doing my best to not venture into such places again for quite some time.
I harvested some feijoas, tomatoes and mushrooms (which I gave away as I don’t eat them) from our garden. We had one evening where D and I had two sick, whiny kids on our hands and getting takeaways felt like a good option as the day had been long and draining. But we resisted the temptation and cooked a meal ourselves.
This month we’ve saved over $600. We’ve been able to consistently bank over $120 a week thanks to our budget tweaks, and as our grocery budget is $200 in surplus after shopping for this week (this is despite spending $80 bulk-buying meat last week) we’ve saved even more. The money saved this month will more than cover my spending in Adelaide, and we are well on track to cover the rest of my expenditure for that trip.