I know I am not alone in feeling like 2016 was like an awful, dastardly cousin (twice-removed) who is never mentioned in polite company. I am pleased to shed the year-that-was and feel somehow lighter now that I am faced with a blank slate new year.
2016 definitely had some great happenings, but I had a dreadful flare-up of my autoimmune disease which left me with little energy and a pile of unwanted weight. Yesterday, on New Year’s Eve I handed in my resignation at work. I greatly enjoyed the job – and my colleagues – but my little family has 3 tricky years ahead and it felt like the right thing to do.
This year D will be taking two papers a semester to complete his theology degree, and working enough hours to support us financially. It may seem counter-intuitive to quit a job, when our income will drop (more on that later) but it is a sensible decision for me. D will swamped with assignments and exams, and won’t be able to be as hands-on with the children. I am happy to pick up the slack, but being an HSP I need breaks, which my little job cut into. Like many jobs in the non-profit sphere, I worked much more than my paid hours in order to deliver a first-class programme. So this year I find myself instead with a few child-free mornings to myself as Chip is starting kindy, meaning it will be much easier for me to be ‘on’ the kids in the afternoons and evenings thanks to those breaks.
In 2018-19 D will begin an internship with a church and then be ordained as a minister. Our income will drop significantly, but if you make mega-bucks as a church leader then there’s something wrong! In anticipation of leaner times ahead we’ve decided to live off what D will make as an intern this year, and save the extra money he makes at his current IT job. This will leave us with a good cushion. In this spirit I will be resurrecting the Dollar Diet, so expect weekly updates on my frugal efforts. These updates really do help to keep me accountable.
One thing I aim to stick to resolutely is throwing my hat in the No New Clothes for a Year ring. As the main clothing buyer for our family, this means everyone. I’m quite confident that my tots will have plenty of great clothes to see them through 2017, thanks to hand-me-downs and savvy bargains I nabbed last year. I have a closet of great clothes I aim to fit back into, and I know I have plenty of outfits for any occasion. And D? He’s already got a hefty collection of novelty print t-shirts to keep him clothed until the next decade so he’ll be fine too. If you want to use your resources more wisely or stop a shopping habit, the Facebook group you will find at the link above is a great source of support and encouragement.
Towards the end of the year I started to get a bit more vroom again, and I aim to stick to the Trim Healthy Mama plan to shed the weight I gained last year, and more hopefully! I know the plan works. I can’t really explain why I drifted off it last year other than my AI flare-up sapping my motivation, but I’m back in the saddle again. I’ll also be using some of my free time to exercise by doing a mix of walking, running and HIIT.
We ended up ringing in 2017 with an impromptu, low-key BBQ. It was lovely. Great weather, great food, superb company. We had a toddler disco, complete with a countdown at the respectable time of 9pm.
I guess you could call my plans for 2017 resolutions, but to me it feels more like getting back into a good groove. I’ve done all these things before. I enjoy living this way. 2017 is going to be a great year!