This post is late as last week ended in a flurry of birthday party, broken arms, sermon writing, special visitors and planning a spur-of-the-moment trip.
The week was mostly spent hanging out with friends, and D went back to work. One of my best friends A-M recently moved to Whanganui with her family so we’ve had loads of fun spending time with them. Our kids are close in age, and our four-year old’s are particularly firm friends (most of the time). Oh, did I mention that Sausage turned four???? Before I get on to the party details, here are some of our frugal happenings:
- D took lunch to work
- I packed lunch and snacks for the kids and I, if out and about
- The kids and I did free stuff, like play dates and parks
- We used up our leftovers
- I hung out at home with my BFF, R who helped me prepare for the birthday party, and survived it.
- R, A-M and I had an extremely rare night out with just the three of us. We worked out it was 16 years since the three of us had been together like this. We had a great time, and kept the cost down by going out for drinks and a snack after dinner.
Er, I can’t think of anything else because my mind was frazzled by Chip ‘breaking’ his arm. He was mucking around on our trampoline with D and then lots of crying and ow’s ensued. They weren’t sure if the arm was broken (he hurt the elbow area) but they strapped it up and Chip was back to his frenetic self in a couple of days. He was very proud of his sling and displayed it to all with a loud ‘I got hurt!’ We took him back this week and it turned out not to be broken, so phew. I am incredibly grateful for the free health care children receive in New Zealand.
Birthday party time!
My beautiful Sausage is now four. She is most definitely in pre-schooler territory. She’s long and lanky, and is a funny, confident, easy-going kid who you can actually reason and negotiate with.
As her birthday is in January (summertime in NZ) I have her birthday party at home and let the kids rampage around our massive back yard. I try to keep it small and simple, but she’s still at the age where parents and siblings come along too, so it always ends up being bigger than I think.
I’ve whinged about it already, but our summer sucks. It’s been the worst one I can recall, and naturally it rained on Sausage’s birthday forcing us indoors. Still, we had a lovely time and I spent a whopping $40 on the whole soiree, which includes party food and drink, the birthday cake, decorations and prizes.
As is often the custom in New Zealand, some friends and family offered to bring a plate of food, so that saved quite a bit of money (and prep time). R and I made a vege and hummus platter, popcorn, egg and ham sandwiches, cheerios and sausage rolls (requested by the birthday girl). The food from other people meant there was more than enough to go around. Drink was juice leftover from Christmas (we don’t normally drink it) which I dilute with soda water. Kids love it.
I saved money by making the cake myself. I talked Sausage into having this easy cake. I had my BFF here the night before Sausage’s birthday which is usually when I’d make the cake. I wanted to maximise my time with R, so I opted for easy, easy, easy. I made the cake her favourite colour (pink), and put a big 4 on top using sprinkles. She loved it and everyone said it was delicious (I don’t eat sugar, so I don’t know!).
Professional cakes can cost upwards from $100 dollars. I consider it a waste of money to buy a cake, when my child loves the cakes I make just fine. It makes my wallet cringe when I see the elaborate cakes people seem to be buying these days. I bought $6 worth of sprinkles (most of which weren’t needed in the end, so hit me up if you want some) but otherwise we had all the ingredients in our pantry already.
Sausage also requested ‘Tunip cupcakes’. For months leading up to her birthday. Tunip is her favourite character from the show ‘The Ocotonauts’. Tunip looks like this:
Not overly complicated I guess, but would certainly require lots of different colours for the icing. I knew I would have little time and limited fondant colours so I did the next best thing. I found some free Octonaut cupcake toppers on Pinterest, and iced the cupcakes blue. They were just as popular as the birthday cake, and Sausage was thrilled with them. I didn’t get any decent pics I’m afraid.
Decorations were limited to some balloons given to Sausage, streamers we bought in the Netherlands that we put up for parties, and a couple of purple tissue balls ($4) which will likewise be used again. I don’t do themes, and won’t unless my tot asks for it.
For the first time ever for a birthday party, I bought disposable plates and cups. I hate these things, but there were several wee ones present and we don’t have enough kid-friendly crockery to go around. I bought recyclable things, including paper straws. Someone had given Sausage the party whistles previously, and I managed to get matching stuff. We have some left over, so expect to see them next year too!
We played two games – Pass the parcel, and pin the carrot on Olaf – and I purchased the prizes for peanuts. One prize was a tin Star Wars lunchbox, and another was a decorate-your-own-mask set. Simple. My mother made some beautiful gift boxes for each child to take home, and these were extremely well-received.
Sausage was given some amazing gifts, some of which (like a make your own wand set, so cool!) I have purloined to bring out on a rainy day.
I learned two things:
- Outside parties are so much better for my floors which looked like a cake bomb had exploded on them and,
- You can never rely on old Mother Nature.