Last week was in no way frugal as the kids and I took an impromptu trip to Wellington. I needed a change of scene, and D needed some peace and quiet, so when I found a decently-priced holiday home on-line, I went for it. We had two nights away and had a great time.
I’d been thinking about taking my tots to Bug Lab, an exhibition on right now at Te Papa. I wasn’t sure if it would be too scary for my tots – who love bugs and insects – but the entry fee wasn’t too pricey ($20 for Sausage and I, Chip was free) so even if they hated it I figured it was worth a try. The exhibition was amazing. My tots did get a bit scared as it’s not every day you see insect models that are the size of a small car. Sausage still enjoyed it and we spent a good half an hour looking around. Chip got scared, but was content to play with the interactive stuff outside of the bug ‘lairs’, and of course he loves the rest of the museum. If you’re an NZ parent who is thinking about taking your kids, I wouldn’t recommend it for under 4’s. School-aged kids, heck yeah.
I’m looking forward to travelling by bus to Te Papa in the future so I don’t have to pay for parking. At the moment my tots are too little to walk from the bus stop to the museum (a reasonable distance), and the thought of taking our stroller, backpack and two tots on a bus gives me a panic attack. Anyway, another time perhaps.
We caught up with several friends on the first night, and it did my soul good to see some of my favourite people all at once. We kept it simple, fish and chips from the local takeaway, and had some vigorous Donald Trump discussion around the dinner table.
We took my plane-obsessed son to Wellington airport. It cost a little for parking, but it was worth it to see his excitement. Even Sausage enjoyed it. We followed it with a trip to Lyall Bay beach.
I got little sleep the first night, as it was Chip’s first night ever in a bed. He fell out twice. Fortunately there was a spare mattress I was able to put down on the floor beside him. Anyway, the upshot was I was so tired the next evening I was too knackered to cook, as had been my original plan. I couldn’t face greasy takeaways again, but I managed to find a local Indian place that delivered. Chip slept just fine that night.
In fact, once we got home he decided he wanted to sleep in his ‘big boy bed’. He’d been rooming with his sister, and we’d been using his bedroom as a playroom and spare room for guests. I’m delighted that he’s transitioned smoothly from his cot to his bed, but it has meant springing for a new duvet/sheet set so there is a spare in case he wets through/when one is in the wash. I have bought second-hand bedding in the past, but it ended up having fleas in it(!), and I can’t bring myself to give it another try. I managed to get him a duvet, duvet inner and sheets for $60. Chip fell out again once this week so we used the pool noodle trick from Pinterest as a bed rail. It was only a few dollars.
We’ve been enjoying all the sights and sounds of Whanganui’s best event: the Vintage Weekend. Our city is host to all things vintage – cars, fashion, music, boats, a soapbox derby, planes…you name it. I was feeling in rather a party mood – it is my favourite time of year – so we bought lunch there rather than take it with us. D and I got some expensive sandwiches, but as they were pretty much the best sandwiches we’ve ever eaten, we’re okay with that. The beauty of this weekend is that most things are low-cost or free, and it really is a joy to participate in.
Anyway, after all that spending I did make some honest attempts to limit any more. This week:
- I packed lunches and snacks, including when we were on our trip.
- We’ve stuck to our meal plan and used up leftovers.
- I included free activities on our trip, such as the beach and a visit to a friend.
- We enjoyed a free lunch out using a gift card.
- Although there were loads of things we could have spent money on at the Vintage festivities, we settled for a traction engine ride (a gold coin), a ferris wheel ride ($3) and entry to the family zone where free games, activities and bouncy castles were available (gold coin). Looking around at the amazing car collection or listening to bands playing cost nothing.
- D and I enjoyed a date night at home, watching The Mask of Zorro. Love that movie.
- We had our first whanau night. My brother has been coming over for dinner once a week for ages, and now we’ve expanded this to include our friends who recently moved here. One week the guys will go off to Toastmasters while the kids play and my friend and I have a chat, and on the non-toastmasters night we will play board games. We’re alternating who hosts, and we all contribute to the meal. Simple and fun and much cheaper than a restaurant!
- We went on some free outings in Whanganui. The kids and I went with friends to Gordon’s Reserve and Kowhai Park. Hours of fun for zilch.
- Swapping childcare to get a break. My daughter gets on well with my friend A-M’s daughter, J. J came over for an afternoon so her mum could get a break. (It ends up being a break for me too, as the girls play so nicely I barely see them.) A-M had Sausage for a few hours the following day. Both times I was able to get loads done on a sermon I was writing.
- I managed to get 3 sets of summer pyjamas for Sausage for $4 each. I couldn’t find any in Chip’s size but I will keep a look-out. I buy for the following year at the end-of-season sales and save big. Even though I am not buying a single item of clothing for anyone THIS year (none of us need a thing!), I am still practising the frugal habit of buying ahead for next year. I save huge amounts of money doing this (along with buying ahead second-hand, accepting hand-me-downs and going to clothes swaps).
This week has left me feeling rather a sham at frugality! But I guess I am grateful that we have the money to go on impromptu trips. Next week will definitely involve belt-tightening and getting back to basics.